Have you ever sat down and thought of this four letter words “love”, okay you may or not. I am not doctor love but I will try my best to bring some sense in this context. Soo many people in this world are being driven crazy by this word, some have actually finished there lives due to this four letter words. Mh stop wondering am talking about love between two opposite sex. Love to me I describe it as a daily choice you make to love your partner.you don’t just think about loving, it comes with alot of sacrifices and respect too. Everyone deserves to be treated well, to be respected, obeyed, cared for, appreciated, and above all loved. yes you I deserve to be happy… but so do you. Waiting around for something to never happen only promotes the stagnation of life, progression—it halts the future and what it has in store. What so many others of our age forget to remember is this: love isn’t simply choosing to spend your life with someone. It is waking up every day and making the daily choice to spend the rest of your life with them. Love isn’t passive, it’s an action—a daily choice. It’s perpetual.
Love means going an extra mile to see your partner smile, A man who loves you will and would randomly place notes in between book pages because he knows it would make you smile. He would call you at 2am just to tell you he wants to hear your voice. He would drive for 3 hours just to see you for an hour because he misses you. He would send you gifts because he knows you love them. He would text you good morning not because he feels obligated to do so, but because you’re the first thing on his mind from the moment he wakes up. He will do everything to see you happy.
You deserve to be treated like a choice, not an option. You are not someone’s “maybe.” He would treat you like a priority. He would love you consistently. He would always be there especially whenever you need him. He would make an effort to be with you. He would show you that you are his one and only. Nkt buddies everyone has his /her ways to define love, I am not doctor love.
Love is a special thing which occurs every minute thinking about that one person who loves you, someone who has always given you a shoulder to lean on. You don’t deserve to be hurt if you doing the correct thing. Love is not all about sex. Love is a sacred thing made to earn someone ‘s trust who knows it might end up, you guys becoming one thing in future.
It doesn’t cost you anything to be faithful to someone. Why hurt a guy or a lady whose idea is to love and cherish his/her partner. If you are not ready I prefer you wait until you ready to love and support your partner emotionally, spiritually and sycologically. Nooo don’t hurt someone who is ready to love you forever.
Stop hide and seek game, act like mature people.